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University of Missouri-Columbia International Center for Psychosocial Trauma 2014 Humanitarian Award to Dr. Anie Kalayjian

Award pictures On Nov 8, 2014, The Advisory Board of the University of Missouri International Center for Psychosocial Trauma (UMICPT) awarded the 2014 Humanitarian Award to Dr. Ani Kalayjian. This award is given annually to an individual who has made significant contributions throughout his/her professional career to promote the mental health of children and their families. The ICPT board recognized Dr. Kalayjian’s lifelong contribution in the field of mental health and its impact on the lives of children worldwide. UMICPT had selected Dr. Kalayjian from amongst a large number of peers to receive the 19th Annual Humanitarian Award. The was presented during the Humanitarian Award Banquet held on Saturday, November 8, 2014 at the Holiday Inn Executive Center in Columbia, MO. Over 200 physicians, scientist, health administrators and representatives of governmental and non-governmental organizations and academicians gathered with their families to celebrate this occasion. The previous awardees include Charlse Figley, Senator Kit Bond, James Garbrino and Dr. Leila Dane to name a few. The award banquet was preceded by a two day course in Trauma Psychiatry, where Dr Kalayjian gave the featured presentation on transforming trauma around the world.  

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April: A Month for Genocide Remembrance & Prevention

Designate the month of April as Genocide Remembrance and Prevention Month Commemorating Centennial of Ottoman Turkish Genocide of Armenians and Other Christian minorities Dear Friends and Members of the Global Community, We have started the petition “Barack Obama, United States Congress, UN Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon, UN General Assembly: Designate month of April as Genocide Awareness and Remembrance Month” and need your help to get it off the ground. We appreciate any help with distribution and promotion of the petition. Please feel free to express your creative impulse that you might have to achieve the goal. Let’s unite to make a change! Will you take 30 seconds to sign it right now? Here’s the link: http://lnk.nu/change.org/1e13f Here’s why it’s important: The word genocide conjures fear and horror every time it is uttered. “Any of the following acts committed with intent to destroy, in whole or in part, a national, ethnic, racial or religious group, as such: killing members of the group; causing serious bodily or mental harm members of the group; deliberately inflicting on the group conditions of life calculated to bring about its physical destruction in whole or in part; imposing measures intended to prevent births within the group; forcibly transferring children of one group to another group.” This is genocide as it is defined by United Nation General Assembly in the Convention on the Prevention and Punishment of the Crime of Genocide in 1948. Genocide is methodical extermination and persecution. It is the deprivation of human dignity on an unimaginable scale. President Barack Obama has said that genocide is a “stain on our souls.” How can we stand for such atrocity? Yet, throughout history, we have seen this crime against humanity perpetrated over and over again: Indigenous People, African Americans, Armenians, Assyrians, Greeks, Holocaust, Holodomor, Rape of Nanking, Herero and Namaqua of South- West Africa, Cambodian, Bosnian, Rwan1) da, Darfur… “The world will not be destroyed by those who do evil, but by those who watch them without doing anything.” Albert Einstein The 100-year commemoration of Ottoman Turkish Genocide of Armenians, Greeks and other Christian minorities is in April, 2015. Every year, wounds are re-opened. Like so many others, the Armenian genocide is still not recognized by the international community. The world community can no longer turn a blind eye. We must not let the mistakes of the past be repeated. We must unite against all genocide. “Pain that is not transformed will be transferred to next generations.” Anonymous We have the power to promote dignity and break this shameful pattern. Let us educate one another and put an end to atrocities. We propose: 1. To recognize April as genocide awareness month to promote public education about the devastating effects of genocides like those in Sudan, Syria, Iraq, Greece, China, Armenia, Rwanda, Germany, DR Congo, the United States and countless other countries (as was legislated in Minnesota, Texas, California, and New Hampshire states). 2. To establish April 24 in our calendars as a Remembrance Day commemorating all victims of genocide with deep commitment to prevention as a national and international holiday. On behalf of those who are no longer with us to speak out against those atrocities, let us unite to transform our lives and open our hearts to lessons learned, to forgiveness, to empathy. Please dare to speak up. Let your voice join thousands of others. Sign the petition to reaffirm your love for humanity and peace. You can sign my petition by clicking here http://lnk.nu/change.org/1e13f. With Love, MeaningfulWorld “When one helps another, BOTH become stronger” “The healing can occur through forgiveness even in the absence of the perpetrator’s remorse, and through finding a deeper meaning in even the worst experiences, and mindfully being vigilant to prevent future Genocides.” – Dr. Ani Kalayjian (2008)  

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2015 Time for Global Action for People and Planet

Dear friends 2015 will be a critical year for the global community and the United Nations. It is the year we face several decisions – on disaster risk reduction, financing for development, sustainable development and climate – that will shape our collective futures for generations to come. Earlier this year the Department of Public Information launched “2015: Time for Global Action”, the UN system-wide campaign that aims to build public support for the sustainable development agenda and show how the issues behind some of this year’s most important events are interconnected. As part of the campaign, a new website – www.un.org/action2015 – is now live and will shortly be available in all six official UN languages. This website will serve as a source of news, as a portal to UN system websites, and as the anchor for a robust social media campaign. It will also link to the extensive civil society mobilization under way through the concurrent Action 2015 campaign. The website has been designed with the general public in mind and to complement the existing and very informative UN websites that focus on the substance of the processes. We hope to continue to build the new website, with your help, adding more news, features, graphics, videos and photos that will help people understand the issues and find ways to join in and take action. We look forward to working with you to implement the wider “2015: Time for Global Action” campaign and to helping achieve the kinds of outcomes this year that will lead to better lives for everyone. Thank you.   Cristina Gallach Under-Secretary-General for Communications and Public Information

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Weekly summary of DPA features

    Politically Speaking is the official magazine of the Department of Political Affairs Check out these stories and more at http://un-dpa.tumblr.com/ This week’s features:  Security Council: Exercise of sovereignty in maintenance of peace, security over the last 70 years The Security Council held an open debate on international peace and security on 23 February commemorating the 70th anniversary of the United Nations. The debate provided an opportunity for Member States to reaffirm their commitments to the purposes and principles of the UN Charter, and to discuss ways to more effectively maintain peace and security. Photo story athttp://tmblr.co/ZaTV2m1eYbcrf  Interview with outgoing Special Representative and head of UNAMI, Nickolay Mladenov Injustice, poverty, and lack of human rights and human dignity create an ideal environment for extremism. Outgoing Iraq envoy Nickolay Mladenov on what the UN is doing to counter extremism and support peace efforts in Iraq. Watch: http://youtu.be/xb9583VxIXE What is needed to ensure a future of peace and development in Iraq? Watch: http://youtu.be/aF942qBYTUA  Iraq: What will it take to top ISIL? Watch: http://youtu.be/IfhZsMWBRA0 Iraq: How is the UN helping to make violence less pervasive? Watch http://youtu.be/FZJEfsEvVoA Amidst violence in the Middle East, how can the UN be most effective? Watch: http://youtu.be/z3Hvcgw3-sM   Sri Lanka: Supporting long-term peace by combining political and development analysis Following his visit to Myanmar, Under-Secretary-General Jeffrey Feltman will visit Sri Lanka starting on 28 February. He is due to meet with senior officials of the Government, political parties and civil society groups in Colombo and Jaffa. Earlier this month, we introduced you to Gita Sabharwal, the UN Advisor on Reconciliation and Development in Sri Lanka. Revisit her story at  https://un_dpa.creatavist.com/srilanka Strategic Communications and Public Affairs    United Nations Department of Political Affairs Office of the Under-Secretary-General

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An Open Letter To My Fellow American-Armenian Brothers And Sisters Dr. Ani Kalayjian

Ramgavar Mamoul October 31, 2012 My cousin, a 60 years of age diabetic male, has been kidnapped from his own mechanic shop in Aleppo, Syria, by the Syrian opposition. For the last five months the opposition has been targeting the Armenian Christian minority in Aleppo, Damascus, Azez, and Der Zor. They have systematically destroyed Armenian churches, Armenian schools, nursing homes, and Armenian neighborhoods. I called my other cousin and could hear the bombs blasting at any hour of the day and night. The opposition is waging war against the Assad government, but Armenians have nothing to do with this war. Although loyal to their country’s government, Armenians are also loyal to their neighbors, and humanity at large. My other cousin has been hiding in the basement of her daughter’s house, in fear, with the house shaking from the blasts, afraid they can no longer live there. Just a day ago they blasted a huge truck in the middle of a courtyard in Aleppo, killing many innocent people. The government is not the force behind all this destruction—it is the Syrian opposition that we Americans are supporting.             In 1915 Syria opened its arms when Ottoman Turks were annihilating Armenians and throwing them out of their homes of 3,000 years. One-and-a half million Armenians were systematically annihilated, and others walked through the Arabian deserts to make it to Syria. Since 1915 Armenians have been building Aleppo, Azez, Latakia, Damascus, Kesab, Der Zor, and other parts of Syria. Armenians have their own private schools, churches, and community centers. Now in 2012, 97 years after the Genocide, Armenians are being subjected to another mass trauma of murder, destruction, ransacking, kidnapping, and torture. The Syrian opposition is backed by Saudi Arabia, Qatar, and Turkey. Turkey has been selling arms to the opposition and finding any excuse to attack the border in northern Syria, which is populated by Christian minority Armenians. Turkey has taken advantage of this chaotic war situation and has destroyed the Genocide memorial and the Armenian Church in Der Zor. The opposition also threw elderly Armenian residents out of the Armenian Elders Home in Bostampasha and turned it into their headquarters to send bombs and missiles to destroy the rest of the Armenian community. These Armenian older adults had been thrown out of their homes at the beginning of their lives by Ottoman Turks, and now, once again, at the last stage of their lives, they are being thrown out of their homes by Syrian opposition forces and Turkish criminals. I am a humanitarian worker and President of the Meaningfulworld, a charitable organization, servicing the world in over 45 countries, and it hurts me in the core to not being able to go to Syria and help the surviving community that is in shell shock, experiencing severe trauma. Where is the UN Declaration for Human Rights? When we contacted the United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights, their response was that their office is in the dark and cannot help. Where is justice? What can we do to stop this madness? Why is the opposition destroying the Armenian community? If they want to lead Syria, they should oppose the Syrian government and not attack innocent Armenian people who are the Christian minority. Howmany times does a nation gets displaced? Where is the UN Declaration for Human Rights? When we contacted the United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights, their response was that their office is in the dark and cannot help. Where is justice? What can we do to stop this madness? Why is the opposition destroying the Armenian community? If they want to lead Syria, they should oppose the Syrian government and not attack innocent Armenian people who are the Christian minority. How many times does a nation gets displaced?               Please help in any way you can, pray for the Christian Armenian minority that is innocently being targeted by the Syrian opposition, hold prayer circles, send donations to help feed our Armenian family, talk with your congressional representative, tell him or her what is REALLY going on in Syria—a totally different story than what the opposition and mainstream media are broadcasting to convince the world. Please educate your circle of Americans and others so they will stop supporting and sponsoring the opposition. Cliffside Park, New Jersey, U.S.A

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Psychological Phases of Disasters, Resources and Preparedness Dr. Ani Kalayjian

According to experts in disaster fields, 5 psychological phases are likely to occur after a disaster (American Red Cross Manual on Disaster Health Services). According to author’s research in over thirty-five disaster ridden countries around the world, these phases vary in length and intensity depending upon history of disaster, vulnerability, kind of disaster, extent of physical damage, and resources available. 1. Initial impact phase: characterized by increased anxiety and fears. 2. Heroic phase: survivors helping one other in efforts to deal with the catastrophe. 3. Honeymoon phase: experiences of joy at having survived and feeling important and special for receiving aid from various private and governmental organizations. 4. Disillusionment phase: increased frustration and resentment at officials and agencies for failing to provide assistance in a more timely & systematic fashion. 5. Reconstitution phase: thoughts and plans for reconstruction and acceptance of the need to assume responsibility for personal problems. STAGES OF EMOTIONAL RESPONSE AFTER A DISASTER Though disasters differ in their intensity, our research finds the following as universal reactions to disasters: 1. Shock and disbelief: In stage one; survivors are in shock, emotionally numb, and in some cases in denial, because the pain is too severe for any human being to bear. 2. Strong emotional response: In second stage, the survivor is emotionally aware of the problem and feels overwhelmed and unable to cope with it.  Common Reactions in Children: 1. Separation anxiety 2. Refusing to sleep or be left alone 3. Conduct disorder 4. Regressive behaviors: thumb-sucking, enuresis, or clinging behavior 5. Hyperactivity 6. Withdrawal 7. Somatic complaints: stomach ache, headache, joint aches, etc. 8. Sleep disturbances.  Common Reactions in Adolescents: 1. Withdrawal, 2. Anger 3. Increased aggression 4. Regression 5. Sleep disturbances 6. Nightmares 7. Increased daydreaming 8. Inability to concentrate 9. Irritability.  Common reactions in Adults: 1. Uncertainty and fear 2. Anger expressed toward builders and government officials 3. Feeling tense, edgy and jumpy 4. Loss of appetite 5. Sleep disturbances and nightmares 6. Withdrawal 7. Loss of concentration 8. Inability to make decisions 9. Aggression: domestic violence, increased alcohol/drug use, etc. 3. Acceptance: In this stage, the survivor begins to accept the magnitude of the disaster and makes and appropriate effort to address it. Survivors feel more hopeful and goal-oriented. At this time, survivors may take more specific actions to help themselves and their families. 4. Recovery: Last but not least is the recovery stage, in which survivors feel they have returned to their pre-disaster level of functioning. A sense of adjustment and well- being is restored and realistic memories of the traumatic experience are developed. Post Disasters it is important to be mindful of the following: 1. Continue your pre disaster routine (as much as possible): work, school, house- work, and other activities. Since there is a lot of uncertainty, it is best to focus on things that you have control, or can be certain about. Try to reduce the time you spend worrying about the things you cannot change; ask yourself “What can I do now?” rather than “Why did this tragedy happen to me, to us?” 2. Use your resources and support systems fully: Stay with family, friends, neighbors, and  co-workers who are positive and supportive; 3. Don’t hide your feelings talk it out: Talk, cry, and express, and share your feelings: grief, sadness, helplessness, or whatever else you may be feeling. You’re not in this alone. It is normal to have those feelings after such a disaster, and it is healthy to get them out of your system. If you don’t, they may be locked in your body, psyche, or soul, and become poisonous. Help your children to tell their stories, express their feelings, role model for them. Remember Shared sorrow is half sorrow, while shared joy is double joy; 4. Reach out to your spiritual support system: Go to your church, Temple, Mosque, or wherever else you may receive spiritual support. Meditate and pray. According to this author’s research, spiritual support has helped survivors tremendously; 5. Know your limits – and make time to rest, relax, recharge, and refresh; 6. Avoid self-medication: Drugs and alcohol may seem to remove stress temporarily, but in the long run they generally create additional problems or behavior that compound the stress you were feeling initially. Even caffeine and nicotine can have a negative effect on your ability to control the sources of anxiety in your life. 7. Find a positive lesson that you learned through your coping: Every experience, including disasters can have a positive meaning which is individually unique. After discharge, try to ask yourself, “How did I become a better human being after this experience?” This is called the post-trauma growth. 8. Find love, express love, and forgive those who have caused you harm: Caring and loving produces positive feelings in us all, and helps us cope with the worst situation. Be generous with your hugs and physical expression of love, caring and compassion. Remember: letting go of anger, revenge and aggression is self-healing. 9. Update your family’s disaster plan and replenish essential disaster supplies. As preparedness is empowering. Resources: APA Help Center • Managing Traumatic Stress: After the Tornadoes http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/tornadoes.aspx • Tornadoes, Hurricanes, and Children http://www.apa.org/helpcenter/tornadoes-kids.aspx APA • Building Your Resilience http://www.apapracticecentral.org/outreach/building-resilience.aspx Red Cross • Recovering Emotionally http://www.redcross.org/find-help/disaster-recovery/recovering-emotionally Red Cross/FEMA • Helping Children Cope with Disaster http://www.fema.gov/pdf/library/children.pdf http://publications.usa.gov/USAPubs.php?PubID=3321 Centers for Disease Control Emergency Preparedness and Response • Tornadoes http://www.bt.cdc.gov/disasters/tornadoes/ Ready.gov. Federal Emergency Management Agency • Coping with Disaster http://www.ready.gov/coping-with-disaster ** Board Certified Expert in Traumatic Stress, and author of Disaster & Mass Trauma: Global Perspectives on Post Disaster Mental Health Management. Mass Trauma & Emotional Healing Around the World: Rituals and Practices for Resilience and Meaning-Making (ABC- CLIO 2010). Forgiveness & Reconciliation: Psychological Pathways for Conflict Transformation & Peace Building (Springer 2010). This sheet was originally developed in NYC for distribution on 12 Sept. 2001. For details, contact DrKalayjian@Meaningfulworld.com Useful websites: www.apahelpcenter.org, www.istss.org, www.selfhelpgroups.org, www.psichi.org/pubs/articles/article_369.asp, www.meaningfulworld.com.

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